Dan's Inner Redneck

Last Saturday, Dan & I went to the county fair to watch the amateur firefighter demolition derby. Surprisingly (since I grew up in a much more NASCAR-centric area of the country), Dan had grown up watching stock car races & demolition derbies with his dad and I had never been to one in my life. But when his co-worker invited us, he lit up, so I knew I was in for a good time. 

Who says you can't learn new things about your spouse after 9 years of marriage?  I learned that my New York City-raised husband has a little redneck in his heart, and seeing as I *may* still have a crush on Bo & Luke from the Dukes of Hazzard, I totally love him more now.

The drivers were firefighters representing different cities in San Diego County. We sat in the middle of the Viejas fire dept. and their families, which was a really friendly group.  I swear the lady next to Dan was related to half the drivers somehow and they all came up to say hi to her before the race.

There were two battle rounds, and the cars that made it through got to compete in the final round. About 7 cars were in each round, and they started in a small rectangular area enclosed by dirt barriers. Dan said the sport has been made safer since he was a kid.  They have less space in the "arena" and they even wet down the dirt so the cars couldn't get up as much speed before crashing into each other. Because like mom always says, it's all fun & games until someone dies. 

The cars started by facing the dirt barrier with their backs to each other. I was obviously cheering for the macho man driving the pink Mary Kay Cadillac.

Then the announcer counted down from 10, and they all went full throttle crashing into each other as hard as they could. Bam!

Any cars that could limp off the arena without assistance at the end could compete in the final round.  Sadly, Mary Kay did not make it.

When the first two rounds were over, the fire departments had 10 minutes to literally beat their cars back into shape before sending them into the final round. New tires, quick engine fixes, and lots and lots of sledgehammering.  Although redneck time runs slow because it was more like a half an hour by my watch.

I expected all the drivers to be men, but it turns out there was one crazy brave firewoman who usually battles it out, too. She couldn't get her car going, though, so she ended up sitting out this one.

After about 20 mins into the final round, there was an obvious victor. He got a trophy with a beat-up junker on top of it.

Fun times were had by all! 

Catching up on May

Wow, where did this month go?  Both our jobs have been super busy, which hasn't left a lot of time and energy for blogging lately! But here's a quick catch-up on the happenings in May.

We celebrated our 9th anniversary on May 3rd!  We broke away from tradition and went to dinner at Macaroni Grill instead of the Cheesecake Factory, so we are really shaking things up in our old age.

Ha, just kidding. I couldn't take it and begged Dan to pick up cheesecake for dessert on our way home. :) 

If this is wrong, I don't want to be right.

In other exciting news, Dan finished up the school year last Friday!  It was his 5th year as Principal, and it's probably been his best year yet.  It ended on a great note since all the graduating Seniors have the opportunity to address the rest of the students, and they told them to appreciate every moment they have at Calvary Christian Academy. The teachers & staff truly love those kids, and this class fully appreciated what a blessing it's been to have relationships with teachers/mentors who live out the gospel and love them enough to hold them accountable when it's needed.  It meant a lot to Dan & the rest of his staff to hear that from the Seniors.  They're making a huge impact in the kids' lives!   

The day after graduation, we flew to Williamsburg, VA to visit family!  We arrived late Saturday night, and went to church with Dan's parents on Sunday morning before driving to Fredericksburg, VA to meet Steve and his fiancee, Sheila, for lunch.  Steve's busy finishing his dissertation for his PhD before starting his first full-time job as a college professor in Cedar Rapids, IA.  Sheila works in Washington, DC, so Fredericksburg is the perfect meeting point since it's halfway between them and Williamsburg.

It was great to catch up with them in person while we were in the area!

When we got back to Dan's folks' house, we got to meet this cute guy - our two-month-old nephew Josiah!

He is boy #4 for Tim & Dawn, Dan's brother and sister-in-law. He loved to be held, and he had plenty of people around who were happy to oblige!

Since it was 85 degrees in VA and Dan's parents have a pool in their backyard, we did a lot of swimming with our older nephews.

Aaron loved playing in the shallow water, but he agreed with his Uncle Dan that the water was too cold for actual swimming!

It was no problem for Nathan, though. Within two days, he was ready to shed all his flotation devices! He's going to be swimming like a fish by the end of the summer.

Benjamin got this awesome pirate ship last Christmas that actually floats!  We took turns capsizing it with our best cannonball splashes.  Something tells me he's going to need a new pirate ship by next Christmas.

Okay, one more really cute photo of Josiah and Dan. I love those matching bald heads.

And Uncle Dan & Aunt Debby with our four awesome nephews!

Somehow I managed to not take any pictures of the other adults in the family.  But we had a great time catching up and playing late night games with Dan's parents, Tim, Dawn, and Robin.  My time with them was too short and I wish I could've stayed longer, but alas, vacation time is limited for those of us not in the school system.  I flew back home alone on Wed. night and Dan gets to stay & play at Resort Jester until Sat. night. *jealous*  

As I was waiting for my flight at the Newport News airport, my plane arrived & I watched the passengers de-board.  I noticed a little girl who looked just like our friends' girl, and suddenly I realized it WAS her!  Our friends, Kate and Mike, were just arriving in VA with their kids, Charlotte and Cameron!  It was such a fun surprise to see them there!  Mike's family lives in the Hampton Roads area, and they fly out regularly for 4th of July and Christmas.  It never occurred to us that they'd be there in May while we were visiting! 

After giving them big hugs, I quickly called Dan & his parents so they could come back to the airport and say hi to Mike & Kate, too.  Hopefully we'll get to see them in VA again at Christmastime, but I loved our unexpected meeting!

Spring Break in New York - Part 4

(Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 are below. By now, your feet are aching from all the walking and you need a vacation from your vacation, but this is NYC and there is still so much to do!)

This was our last day in NYC (my feet were happy, but the rest of me was sad). We stayed in Carlstadt, NJ the last two nights and discovered another wonder of public transportation called the bus. Of course we had ridden busses before, but after driving through NYC ourselves, we worried that we'd be stuck on a bus in gridlock traffic with no end in sight. That, my friends, is a surefire way for Dan to completely lose his mind.

Don't let the smile fool you, he is sweating. Only the fear of paying $50+ for parking in the city is greater.

But of course this is NYC public transportation, so we were very pleasantly surprised! From our hotel's bus stop, it was a 15-25 minute ride to Times Square depending on the number of stops along the way. We made a point to avoid rush hour, which also helped. It was more expensive ($8.50/round trip) than taking the train, but still much cheaper and probably faster than the alternative. Dan developed a greater appreciation for New Jersey than he's ever had before.

We had two ideas for how to spend the afternoon - either going to the New York Mets game or seeing another Broadway show. One of Dan's coworkers told us that "Newsies" was playing on Broadway, so we went to the theater to see if we could buy last-minute tickets for the matinee. It worked out, and we really enjoyed it! It's based on a true story of the 1899 NYC strike by the "Newsies" (the poor boys who sold newspapers for a penny) against the newspaper owner, Joseph Pulitzer. We had watched several seasons of "So You Think You Can Dance" on TV, and three of the guys from the show played characters in "Newsies." Recognizing some of the faces made it even more fun to watch!

"Look at me, I'm the King of New York..."

Afterwards, we visited the gorgeous NYC Public Library.

The building was so intricate from floor to ceiling.

There were beautiful paintings on the walls, like this depiction of Moses breaking the Ten Commandments when he discovers the Israelites worshipping a golden calf. Although those people don't look remotely Jewish, I'm just saying.

The Reading Room was a work of art in itself.

They also have the original Winnie the Pooh stuffed animals, owned by Christopher Robin Milne, the son of A.A. Milne, who wrote the books.

How cute are they??

Okay, since you asked nicely, here's one more of Pooh Bear.

That night, we went to our 4th and final hockey game to see the NY Rangers play at Madison Square Garden. Dan said he felt dirty just by being there, but the Rangers lost and made his day. They had personal flat screens in front of your seat where you could watch the video feed of the game. The funny thing was you could change the channel on the screens, so people were flipping to baseball, golf, etc. while watching a live hockey game. This confirmed my theory that Attention Deficit Disorder was invented by Americans.

A celebrity sighting on the Fan Cam!

Our last day of vacation was Easter Sunday. We were looking forward to attending church and spending the afternoon with our good friends Jenn and Eric, and their kids James and Sara. They moved from San Diego to New Jersey over a year ago and we really miss them!

As we got to the church and sat down with our friends, a lady got up to sing, and Dan almost fell out of his pew! It was Beth Fagerlund, his high school history teacher from Long Island over 25 years ago!

Dan went right up to her and her husband after the service to re-introduce himself. She was so surprised & excited to see him again! She's kept in touch with the Jesters over the years and it was nice for Dan to see her again.

We spent the rest of the afternoon catching up with Jenn, Eric, James, and Sara. They're still settling into New Jersey, but they like it so far.

It was a great way to end our trip!

Unfortunately, our flight crew was late for our flight out of Newark airport that evening, so we missed our connection in San Francisco. It was the last flight of the day, so we got 4 hours of sleep in a San Francisco hotel before catching a 6 am flight on Monday morning to San Diego. When we got home, we immediately went to bed for a couple more hours before I had to get up, shower, and work a half day. Dan's on his 2nd week of Spring Break, so he's getting that vacation from his vacation that we all dream of. :)

Spring Break in New York - Part 3

(You can read "Part 1" and "Part 2" below. By now you probably feel like you've spent a week in New York, too!)

This was my favorite day of our trip! Early in our marriage we visited NYC several times during Christmastime to visit Dan's folks, but our time was always limited and it was too cold to really enjoy sightseeing. I had a checklist of things I wanted to do if we vacationed there when the weather was nice, and on this day many of my wishes were fulfilled.

Confession: I have wanted to visit the American Museum of Natural History ever since I saw "Night at the Museum" in 2006. After driving back to NYC from Philadelphia that morning, this was our first stop. My inner child was ecstatic!

You can easily spend an entire day in this place! We read the floorplan, decided which exhibits we wanted to see, and spent a fast-paced 3 hours touring the museum. A cool model of the planets, although they removed Pluto since it has been demoted to a dwarf planet. Boo.

Wow, the "New York Bagel-Pizza-Deli Sandwich Diet" is really working for me!

That funny statue from "Night at the Museum"! "You bring me gum gum." Haha!

The animal exhibits were truly incredible. I could've spent much more time in this area, but we had to keep moving. Dan's being charged by a herd of elephants, no big deal.
The dinosaur exhibit was very impressive, too, although of course it's hard to know how accurate it all is.

I needed a snack after we left the museum, so we bought a soft pretzel with mustard off a truck in Central Park. It seemed like the New York thing to do. Strolling through Central Park with Dan was another longtime dream of mine. It's just as pretty & romantic as it looks in the movies, and the weather was perfect. Here's a shot of the Bethesda Fountain in the center of the park (named after the biblical pool where the first person who stepped in after the water was troubled would be healed of their affliction). It was nice to get away from the never-ending concrete of the city for a while. Yep, this is exactly how I pictured it in my mind. Perfection. :)

Every Friday night from 4-8 pm, the Museum of Modern Art opens its doors for free. We took advantage of it, along with 10,000 of our closest friends. It was really crowded!

I remembered Salvador Dali's "The Persistence of Memory" from my Art History class in college.

It's really big and kind of cool, but I just don't get it.

I get this one, though. :)

The highlight was seeing Van Gogh's "Starry Night." It's one of Dan's favorites!

We couldn't decide what we wanted for dinner, but Dan remembered that there's a food court downstairs in Grand Central Terminal. It's got surprisingly gourmet restaurant options, and we dined on tri-tip, garlic mashed potatoes, and roasted vegetables. Food=A+ Ambiance=D-

We walked to Rockefeller Center next, and I was curious to see what it looked like when it wasn't Christmastime. There was no giant Christmas tree, but otherwise it looked exactly the same. They even had the ice skating rink open!

We bought tickets to go to the Top of the Rock (at the Rockefeller Center building) to see the city at night. From what we read, the view is just as nice there as it is at the top of the Empire State Building. But of course if you're on the Empire State Building, you don't get to see it in the skyline, so we opted for the Top of the Rock instead.
There are 3 viewing levels at the Top of the Rock. The 2 lower levels are surrounded by glass to shelter you from the wind. But your pictures turn out like this after spending way too much time trying to figure out how to get the flash from reflecting in center of your picture. And then suddenly you realize that if you go to the very top level, there is no glass! Brilliant!!

And you get this breathtaking view. It looks like NYC covers the entire world!

Looking down on Manhattan at night magically transforms it from an overwhelmingly large, crowded, busy, noisy city into one of the most beautiful and serene places in the world. It's amazing what a single elevator ride can do! :)

And thus concludes my favorite day.